Sir, - In reply to D. MacAonghusa (March 13th) we regard the child solely as a victim in child abuse. We suggested teaching children modesty so that they would know when something was said or done to them which offended against that modesty. They would know it was wrong and could tell parents or teacher as appropriate. This teaching of modesty should be done by parents from the early years.
Stay Safe on the contrary appeals only to feelings of yes or no when referring to unwanted touch. But feelings are not a guide to right or wrong, good or bad. Roleplaying is an integral part of the programme. Children are taught the parts of the body not to be touched. It is not too difficult to imagine how this could be repeated by young children in the playground and elsewhere. After all, what a child learns in the classroom is to be used.
With regard to child abuse in the past, all evils have happened in the past. But equally it must be said that child abuse is much more widespread today. With pornography widely available and sex constantly portrayed and talked about in the media, it would be an illusion to think otherwise.
Strangely, Mr MacAonghusa did not defend Stay Safe by telling us what is good about it. Maybe he hasn't seen it. - Yours, etc.,
Hon Sec, The Irish Family League, PO Box 3228, Baile Atha Cliath 8.