FRIENDS from all walks of life gathered to give thanks for the life of Bill Tector. He was a special friend, universally loved and respected and his passing leaves a gap in many lives.
How can we analyse the qualities that touched so many lives? First and foremost, he cared deeply about people not a casual caring but a caring that was costly in time and effort. It arose spontaneously, and many of us were the beneficiaries a letter of congratulation, a phone call of wise advice, a visit of support during a time of difficulty. He gave generously of his time and means in practical ways.
One of his most endearing qualities was the genuine pleasure that he derived from the success of others, even when things were not going well for himself. He loved to hear about young men he had guided and taught doing well in their careers.
Bill's own achievements were numerous. In his chosen profession of teaching he was highly respected, and his successful career was crowned with the head mastership of Sandford Park. This he carried out with distinction, and he made a lasting impression on colleagues, students and parents alike.
He was a talented sportsman also, achieving proficiency in many fields. Undoubtedly, the pinnacle was the three caps he gained for Ireland in rugby football, but it should be remembered that he played par golf at Portmarnock for many years. In all sport, he played to win he gave it everything, and expected others to do the same. Quitting had no part in his make up, but when the game was over, he was as good a loser as he was a winner.
He had a memorable year as Captain of Portmarnock Golf Club in 1980, and was a vice President at the time of his passing. At the 1994 centenary celebrations, though far from being in good health, he took part in the flag raising ceremonies.
Bill brought a distinctive style to everything he did. Enthusiasm coupled with discipline and a sensitivity to the feelings of others, were the hallmarks of all his activities. He took his responsibilities seriously and kept himself well informed in order to make better decisions. He had a serious mien, but underneath was a droll sense of humour. Indeed to hear him relating details of some of his encounters could be hilarious.
He won our admiration yet again for the manner in which he fought his final terrible illness. Diagnosed some five years earlier, with Audrey and his family by his side he battled against the odds and survived far beyond what the professionals forecast. He was sustained by a deep faith in his "Maker" to use his own word. Now he is with his Maker, and will have heard the words "Well done, good and faithful servant.
Those of us who were privileged to be numbered among his friends miss him deeply. Our sincere sympathy goes to Audrey, Brian, Jackie, Heatley, Sally, his mother, and the wider family circle.
Help me in all the work I do
To be ever sincere and true
And know that all I do for you
Must needs be done for others.