I am starting university in September and I'm worried about making friends. I'm shy and not very good at small talk. If I have something to say, I say it, but if I don't I keep quiet. I don't like clubbing and this is what most people like to do for a night out. I don't mind going to the pub for a drink but I prefer the theatre, the cinema and going out for a meal.

I want to make friends at university, but I need some advice. Please help!

Shy Girl

Dear Shy Girl,

Your first bet is making friends on your course with people like you. Why not talk to the shy ones and see if you click with them. At first, everyone is shy, but you slowly get to know people at university because there is a lot of team work.

I wouldn't worry about this much because you will make friends at university no matter how talkative you are. When you start, don't keep people at a distance because they will get the wrong impression. Just chill out and talk to different people. Why not arrange the "get to know you" night out at the pub or go for a meal?

If you suggest this everyone will feel they can talk to you - and most of them will like you and would love to be your friend. Be yourself and you'll be fine.